Idag bolggar jag på Svenska ibland på engelska ,förlåt det blir bara så min lilla utbrända hjärna fungerar bara på olika språk olika dagar.
Nå väl jag har gått o funderat på detta sedan förra veckan när en en gång ett barn 17 år dödade sina skolkamarater på en skolgård i tyskland.
Det gör så ont i hjärtat eftersom Jag själv har barn i den åldern men strunt i det det gör väl ont oavsett man har egna barn eller inte.Vad är det för värld i lever i som dirver barn till sådana vansinnesdåd.Snälla någon prata med mej vad är det som händer om de inte tar livet av sig så massakerar de varandra våra ungdomar har ont i själen och vi vuxna har svikit de.
Jag frågade min son dagen efter,han är 16 år ifall man tog upp detta i skolan och han svarade nej.Borde man inte ha gort det?Man behöver väl inte vara "rocket sientist" för att förstå att de går och grubblar på detta.Och om det är en o annan barn som mår så pass dåligt att de funderar på något liknande har man då inte fångat upp det i samband med denna tragedi???
Hjälp mig konstatera att vi bör satsa mer på att ta reda på varför våra ungdomar inte bara i Sverige men uppenbarligen i hela västvärlden mår så dåligt varför innan de ens har nått mydig ålder bestämmer sig att det är inte värt att leva i denna värld???Skit tillfälligt i finanskrisen och ta upp denna kris istället för är det inte så att de är våran framtid???Släng bort skit program från våra tv kanaler,radio,och tidningar och kalla till nationell krismötte gå till boten med varför innan nästa skolmassaker och förhoppningsviss blir det inga fler.
måndag 16 mars 2009
tisdag 3 mars 2009
grown ass woman with baggage
Hi
Well is is what it is,you must wonder why i am on about TV so much why dont I read or something on my freetime.Here is the thing I can`t yes you guessed right I am a 42 year old 9-6 working class mom,a divorcee possibly a burned out, stressed out mom.So When i get home from work having cooked and cleaned had varoius discussions with my kids about what they can and can not do.
Man when I hit that couch about 20:00-21:00 there is nothing that can get me up yes I reach for that remote controll and hope that every night it will magically take me to better places and what do I see "reality shows"?????There is nothing real about those shows or on the people on those shows so I change chanell after chanell with no luck.And I just want to pull my burned out hair.
You may ask why I dont date then ,well in todays world it seems that everybody is supposed to be happy,and "up for anything","no bagage",in sweden the ads on dating sites are full of the words"Glimten i Ögat"?????
Hey I am gorgeous but I am noy any of those things not all the time,I am not happy all the time I am a grown ass woman with kids to raise bills to pay and agruments to be had with my kids so many a times I am an angry woman yep and baggage I have and I am not ready to let them go they are my babbage earned from a messy divorce and lack. if i have a date I need to be free to say will you have me and my Bags???I am gorgeous but I have baggage I am not a 20 year old baggae free person,or a 42 year old impersonator..and I certainely am not up for everything,no sir I have earned the right to say this I do that i wont,I am gorgeous not a needle or a botox near me ever had two amazing kids,you should be so lucky,but I am not up for every thing.
I have done and experienced enough in my life to be allowed to draw somelines at 20 i was up for everything.
today I am a grown ass woman with baggage
Well is is what it is,you must wonder why i am on about TV so much why dont I read or something on my freetime.Here is the thing I can`t yes you guessed right I am a 42 year old 9-6 working class mom,a divorcee possibly a burned out, stressed out mom.So When i get home from work having cooked and cleaned had varoius discussions with my kids about what they can and can not do.
Man when I hit that couch about 20:00-21:00 there is nothing that can get me up yes I reach for that remote controll and hope that every night it will magically take me to better places and what do I see "reality shows"?????There is nothing real about those shows or on the people on those shows so I change chanell after chanell with no luck.And I just want to pull my burned out hair.
You may ask why I dont date then ,well in todays world it seems that everybody is supposed to be happy,and "up for anything","no bagage",in sweden the ads on dating sites are full of the words"Glimten i Ögat"?????
Hey I am gorgeous but I am noy any of those things not all the time,I am not happy all the time I am a grown ass woman with kids to raise bills to pay and agruments to be had with my kids so many a times I am an angry woman yep and baggage I have and I am not ready to let them go they are my babbage earned from a messy divorce and lack. if i have a date I need to be free to say will you have me and my Bags???I am gorgeous but I have baggage I am not a 20 year old baggae free person,or a 42 year old impersonator..and I certainely am not up for everything,no sir I have earned the right to say this I do that i wont,I am gorgeous not a needle or a botox near me ever had two amazing kids,you should be so lucky,but I am not up for every thing.
I have done and experienced enough in my life to be allowed to draw somelines at 20 i was up for everything.
today I am a grown ass woman with baggage
måndag 2 mars 2009
get Linda Rosing;big brother Gordon Ramzey of our TV screens
Hi
Here i go again ...complaining but please understand I dont complain for the sake of it I complain in the hopes of that my little voice will stirr up a discussion and in my dream bring about change.
You at the risk of stating the obvious we in todays society live in a ruthless world where the term survival of the fittest is a religion.But fit for what fit to be a part of a reality show in which you have to litteraly have sex live on screen for the status of a celebrity???If not you will be spit out after live humiliation on live tv infront of your children and family.
Are we so bare of actuall kulture and so emptied of vision and inspirations that all we are capable of producing on tv these days is live humiliation???Must our children grow up with these values should these shows not be on pay per view or something so that we can controll what our children are exposed to???? And just how much do the garbage shows like big brother,"who is the right partner for Linda Rosing" a follow up show after which this single mother who participated on Big Brother Sweden...and yup had sex on the show thus resulting in her immidiate celebrity status.botoxed herself from to toe and now the swedish channel 5 has a nationwide search dedicated to have us find a suitable partner for this excuse my french botoxed bimbo.I wonder at what expence what programs that would be both interesting,educational and funny where rejected in order to fit her botoxed self on our screens.
Sorry I get so angry every time i see the add for the show as a mother my heart bleeds for her children.Talk to me please let me hear if anywone is thinking what I am thinking or tell me if you think i am wrong.
Here i go again ...complaining but please understand I dont complain for the sake of it I complain in the hopes of that my little voice will stirr up a discussion and in my dream bring about change.
You at the risk of stating the obvious we in todays society live in a ruthless world where the term survival of the fittest is a religion.But fit for what fit to be a part of a reality show in which you have to litteraly have sex live on screen for the status of a celebrity???If not you will be spit out after live humiliation on live tv infront of your children and family.
Are we so bare of actuall kulture and so emptied of vision and inspirations that all we are capable of producing on tv these days is live humiliation???Must our children grow up with these values should these shows not be on pay per view or something so that we can controll what our children are exposed to???? And just how much do the garbage shows like big brother,"who is the right partner for Linda Rosing" a follow up show after which this single mother who participated on Big Brother Sweden...and yup had sex on the show thus resulting in her immidiate celebrity status.botoxed herself from to toe and now the swedish channel 5 has a nationwide search dedicated to have us find a suitable partner for this excuse my french botoxed bimbo.I wonder at what expence what programs that would be both interesting,educational and funny where rejected in order to fit her botoxed self on our screens.
Sorry I get so angry every time i see the add for the show as a mother my heart bleeds for her children.Talk to me please let me hear if anywone is thinking what I am thinking or tell me if you think i am wrong.
tisdag 10 februari 2009
children in crises
Here we go again,today there was an article on our local newspaper on how suicide amongst teenagers is rising,and my toughts went to a boy a classmate of my daughters here in Lund,Sweden.He to took his life in a very disturbing way ,not that it is not disturbing anytime a child feels this life is not worth living,he threw himself infront of a train a sixteen year old.
I remember that we used to live near the station at and the now familiar screech from the train as they try to stop it when something that should not be there is on the trains way.
I am a mother a single mother mt heart to this day bleeds everytime i think of him,a conversation with my daughter explained to me that the boy was very lonely come probably from economically challanged family so did not allways wear the most uptodate clothes,probably did not own most of the gadgets that our children must have these days to even start to feel they are worth anything cellphones that preferably have to be changes every year to the latest models,designer clothes,comupters allso preferably changed every year to the latest type,flatscreen tv in the livingroom and their bedrooms,money so that they can go to coffe bars that charge a minimum of sek 30 per coffe the list goes on and on.
Since he died in our small town of Lund there have been at least 10 suicides amongst teenagers the latest one a boy from my sons old school a 15year old,that boy spent so many sleepovers at my house when they where 8-9 years old.My son came home and told me and I did not know how to react should I hug him I wanted to cry even screem why why what have we done to these children why can we not see how bad they feel,why is it not a national or even international crises everytime a child decides this life is not worth living.
As a single mother i know how hard it is to provide what seems to be a neccesity for children these days,x-box costs minimum of 2000 sek every game cd unless they download it from the internet somhow sek 500,a cellphone unless bought on blocket or whatever webstore you have for secondhand trade sek 3000 and ofcourse a minimum of sek 75 for each phone card lets not even go into flatscreen tv designer jeans cost .....Now alltough even children to privilaged parents commit suicide and find themselves in emmotional crises today I will bet that undeprivilaged children are overrepresented.
If the mobilphone producers such as Ericson,nokia etc... are allowed to market their latest products targeting our children then they should subcidize is so that all of us can afford to give our teenager the latest one every year,tough why a perfectly functional phone gets discarded every year is beyond me.
As to the bully mentality we tell our children that its wrong you should never stand for anyone at your school or getting bullied and yet what do they see every night on" garbage TV" which is what I call reality shows,such as IDOL,Big Bully Gordon Ramsay,Big brother and the list goes on and on people getting bullied ,insulted because they are not the coocks they tought they where,or because they tought that they could actually be models,it makes me want to scream seeing these amazingly beautiful girls on top model being discarded week after week by TYRA BANKS standing there as tough she has discovered the cure for aids,telling them that the judges have decided you are not enough so pack your bags and go home,isnt it heart breaking to see these young girls standing there infront of the so called judges shaking crying so affraid of rejection by the mighty TYRA BANKS and her posy.If that is not public bullying then I dont know what.So when these pretty,intelegent girls get thrown out week after week what do you think it does to our kids does it not encourage bullies to continue bullying,and the bullied to feel that i am not worth anything anyway I might as well check out.....Look I like entertainement even more so than the next guy i think but I am a mother of a teenage boy and a 21year old daughter,everytime I see these girls I see my daughter,everytime I see that pompous jerk Simon Cowell humiliating a young person for participating on a show that he is making millions from,mind you it is because of the humiliation factor these shows are popular and yet a young adult gets insulted,humiliated and cast away on live TV infront of our children...why should they not do the same to a classmate,or a friend that does not match up to their standard????Why should they say no to bullying those that in one way or another dont measure up.
The others most just feel bad and just not good enough and some just decide it is not worth it i might as well die,if I am not pretty enough,or dont have all the gadgets,some are children not only to single mom and dads hard working people who would love to give them everything they can but the ends jsut dont meet enough every month .Many are children to alcoholics,drug abusers,mentaly and physicaly burned out parents so they have none to console them at home,when all this junk that is in their face every day overwhelms them.
What do the cost these shows in these days of crises it makes you wonder how much and what could have been done with that money instead.Now I dont mean that the sole reason it "garbage TV " that our children are getting more and more deppresed for but I would give an arm or a leg to bann such shows from ever getting produced.
I would like to hear if any other parent in Sweden or anywhere else in the world feels what I feel.......
I remember that we used to live near the station at and the now familiar screech from the train as they try to stop it when something that should not be there is on the trains way.
I am a mother a single mother mt heart to this day bleeds everytime i think of him,a conversation with my daughter explained to me that the boy was very lonely come probably from economically challanged family so did not allways wear the most uptodate clothes,probably did not own most of the gadgets that our children must have these days to even start to feel they are worth anything cellphones that preferably have to be changes every year to the latest models,designer clothes,comupters allso preferably changed every year to the latest type,flatscreen tv in the livingroom and their bedrooms,money so that they can go to coffe bars that charge a minimum of sek 30 per coffe the list goes on and on.
Since he died in our small town of Lund there have been at least 10 suicides amongst teenagers the latest one a boy from my sons old school a 15year old,that boy spent so many sleepovers at my house when they where 8-9 years old.My son came home and told me and I did not know how to react should I hug him I wanted to cry even screem why why what have we done to these children why can we not see how bad they feel,why is it not a national or even international crises everytime a child decides this life is not worth living.
As a single mother i know how hard it is to provide what seems to be a neccesity for children these days,x-box costs minimum of 2000 sek every game cd unless they download it from the internet somhow sek 500,a cellphone unless bought on blocket or whatever webstore you have for secondhand trade sek 3000 and ofcourse a minimum of sek 75 for each phone card lets not even go into flatscreen tv designer jeans cost .....Now alltough even children to privilaged parents commit suicide and find themselves in emmotional crises today I will bet that undeprivilaged children are overrepresented.
If the mobilphone producers such as Ericson,nokia etc... are allowed to market their latest products targeting our children then they should subcidize is so that all of us can afford to give our teenager the latest one every year,tough why a perfectly functional phone gets discarded every year is beyond me.
As to the bully mentality we tell our children that its wrong you should never stand for anyone at your school or getting bullied and yet what do they see every night on" garbage TV" which is what I call reality shows,such as IDOL,Big Bully Gordon Ramsay,Big brother and the list goes on and on people getting bullied ,insulted because they are not the coocks they tought they where,or because they tought that they could actually be models,it makes me want to scream seeing these amazingly beautiful girls on top model being discarded week after week by TYRA BANKS standing there as tough she has discovered the cure for aids,telling them that the judges have decided you are not enough so pack your bags and go home,isnt it heart breaking to see these young girls standing there infront of the so called judges shaking crying so affraid of rejection by the mighty TYRA BANKS and her posy.If that is not public bullying then I dont know what.So when these pretty,intelegent girls get thrown out week after week what do you think it does to our kids does it not encourage bullies to continue bullying,and the bullied to feel that i am not worth anything anyway I might as well check out.....Look I like entertainement even more so than the next guy i think but I am a mother of a teenage boy and a 21year old daughter,everytime I see these girls I see my daughter,everytime I see that pompous jerk Simon Cowell humiliating a young person for participating on a show that he is making millions from,mind you it is because of the humiliation factor these shows are popular and yet a young adult gets insulted,humiliated and cast away on live TV infront of our children...why should they not do the same to a classmate,or a friend that does not match up to their standard????Why should they say no to bullying those that in one way or another dont measure up.
The others most just feel bad and just not good enough and some just decide it is not worth it i might as well die,if I am not pretty enough,or dont have all the gadgets,some are children not only to single mom and dads hard working people who would love to give them everything they can but the ends jsut dont meet enough every month .Many are children to alcoholics,drug abusers,mentaly and physicaly burned out parents so they have none to console them at home,when all this junk that is in their face every day overwhelms them.
What do the cost these shows in these days of crises it makes you wonder how much and what could have been done with that money instead.Now I dont mean that the sole reason it "garbage TV " that our children are getting more and more deppresed for but I would give an arm or a leg to bann such shows from ever getting produced.
I would like to hear if any other parent in Sweden or anywhere else in the world feels what I feel.......
torsdag 5 februari 2009
Gordon Ramsay you big bully
Gordon Ramsay
you big bully....I have been irritated and so needed to vent my opinions about you somewhere,so my children told me ablout blogging.
you may never read this but I would like to know why you need to swear,and curse and call people names just because you can make a decent meal.
I know you make money that way but it makes me wonder as to how good you skills are and if you ever would have been as sucessfull as you are if you did not curse and insult people on TV.
Use your good words that you learned in school,fuck ....not a good word for a grown up, you remind me of a nasty bully that terrorised people at school when i was in 5th grade.He to could not use his good words to get his oppinion accros.People responded much the same way they do to you now alltough they would like to give you back your with your own medicin that is calling you a donkey,and fuck fuck fuck...they dont because with Rudy they want to avoid getting beaten up with you they want to kling on to the minimal chance that they might make money and get a job
Is that by the way how you educate your children at home when they have done something wrong?????Wow i would like to sit at that dinner table and count the word fuck then.
Do they say then oh fuck....dad why can i not do this and that?????You would then say....fuck of you little donkey its past your bedtime you have to go to fucking school tommorrow.Or are you more carefull when people are related to you??????Then you show must be banned at you house you cant very well be saying fuck fuck every second sentence and tell your children they cant.....
That would be a wonderfull reality show...haha
Those people you call donkey,stupid and what nots allso have parents and friends and kids........the only reason they put up with you is because of the marginal chane that they would make money and get jobs.
This was so great .........if you are reading this then fuck off and continue making dinner thats all i had to say
you big bully....I have been irritated and so needed to vent my opinions about you somewhere,so my children told me ablout blogging.
you may never read this but I would like to know why you need to swear,and curse and call people names just because you can make a decent meal.
I know you make money that way but it makes me wonder as to how good you skills are and if you ever would have been as sucessfull as you are if you did not curse and insult people on TV.
Use your good words that you learned in school,fuck ....not a good word for a grown up, you remind me of a nasty bully that terrorised people at school when i was in 5th grade.He to could not use his good words to get his oppinion accros.People responded much the same way they do to you now alltough they would like to give you back your with your own medicin that is calling you a donkey,and fuck fuck fuck...they dont because with Rudy they want to avoid getting beaten up with you they want to kling on to the minimal chance that they might make money and get a job
Is that by the way how you educate your children at home when they have done something wrong?????Wow i would like to sit at that dinner table and count the word fuck then.
Do they say then oh fuck....dad why can i not do this and that?????You would then say....fuck of you little donkey its past your bedtime you have to go to fucking school tommorrow.Or are you more carefull when people are related to you??????Then you show must be banned at you house you cant very well be saying fuck fuck every second sentence and tell your children they cant.....
That would be a wonderfull reality show...haha
Those people you call donkey,stupid and what nots allso have parents and friends and kids........the only reason they put up with you is because of the marginal chane that they would make money and get jobs.
This was so great .........if you are reading this then fuck off and continue making dinner thats all i had to say
vem bryr sig om vem som är den rätta för linda rosing
Jag är så trött på alltskräp som är på TV varjekväll efter en lång arbetsdag skall Jag nu bry mig om Vem som är den rätte för Linda Rosing?????Varför varför har dessa skräpprogram får en sådan framgång på TV varför är det ok att en kvinna vars enda bidrag till samhället är att hon har haft SEX på en annan skräpprogram"bigbrother"ta up så mycket tid i våra vardagsrum i dessa kristider.Vad kostar det att producera ett sådant program för att en botoxad blondin skall i vår TV skärmar få den rätte why why why sänder vi de signalerna till våra barn att detta är vägen till framgång,TA HENNE VECK JAG ÄR TRÖTT PÅ ATT MÅ ILLA VARJE GÅNG JAG SER REKLAMEN IFÖR.HOn är en mamma dessutom stakars barn vad de måste skämmas...
Vi säger till våra barn att det är inte OK att mobba men varje kväll överössas de med massiv vuxen mobning av dess olika slag på TV Gordon Ramsay a little visous bully in a grown mans body"en liten elak mobbare i en vuxen mans kropp"varje kväll ser vi på hans program hur han skriker "you useless Donkey"varannan ord som kommer från hans mun är fuck detta tjänar han miljoner på "IDOL"jag har konsekvent förbjudit mina barn att ens tänka tanken på att söka ditt varför skall en gäng hänsynslösa,självupptagna intelegensbefriade individer nedvärdera mitt barn på TV??? som om livet inte är tufft nog skall dessa frustrerade utbrända idioter skälla ut mitt barn på live TV ??? Mobbning är inte OK men på TV så är det OK säger vi till våra barn dessa b-class kändisr får lov att kalla er vad de vill men nej nej på skolan o fritidsgården där får ni vara snäll mot varandra IDOL är skräp ta bort det eller bemanna juryn med vuxna som faktiskt kan tala om för ett barn eller ungvuxen att denna" gången har vi inte valt dig men ge inte upp för det"Jag förstår att det är sensations tv men varför njuter vi av att see en människa bli behandlad på det sättet ........Vad hände med all bra underhållning komedier med erfarna skådespelare,sammhälls program som uppmuntrar,varför reagerar inte alla på detta....det är mycket pengar som går åt till dessa renutsagt äckliga,innehållstomma program men de är där på TV,Tidningar,Internet.................Linda Rosing tänker inte hjälpa dig hitta den rätta ,you irritate the shit out of me försvinn från min TV Ruta,gå back to school and do something that will make your children proud, du är vuxen .........
Vi säger till våra barn att det är inte OK att mobba men varje kväll överössas de med massiv vuxen mobning av dess olika slag på TV Gordon Ramsay a little visous bully in a grown mans body"en liten elak mobbare i en vuxen mans kropp"varje kväll ser vi på hans program hur han skriker "you useless Donkey"varannan ord som kommer från hans mun är fuck detta tjänar han miljoner på "IDOL"jag har konsekvent förbjudit mina barn att ens tänka tanken på att söka ditt varför skall en gäng hänsynslösa,självupptagna intelegensbefriade individer nedvärdera mitt barn på TV??? som om livet inte är tufft nog skall dessa frustrerade utbrända idioter skälla ut mitt barn på live TV ??? Mobbning är inte OK men på TV så är det OK säger vi till våra barn dessa b-class kändisr får lov att kalla er vad de vill men nej nej på skolan o fritidsgården där får ni vara snäll mot varandra IDOL är skräp ta bort det eller bemanna juryn med vuxna som faktiskt kan tala om för ett barn eller ungvuxen att denna" gången har vi inte valt dig men ge inte upp för det"Jag förstår att det är sensations tv men varför njuter vi av att see en människa bli behandlad på det sättet ........Vad hände med all bra underhållning komedier med erfarna skådespelare,sammhälls program som uppmuntrar,varför reagerar inte alla på detta....det är mycket pengar som går åt till dessa renutsagt äckliga,innehållstomma program men de är där på TV,Tidningar,Internet.................Linda Rosing tänker inte hjälpa dig hitta den rätta ,you irritate the shit out of me försvinn från min TV Ruta,gå back to school and do something that will make your children proud, du är vuxen .........
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